“I am committing to you within the limits we decided upon”
No one expects themed works of fiction to be perfect, accurate representations of bdsm. That would be a very boring book
Pseudonyms, alternate names, literal masks, and personas allow us to live in some form as we truly are.
*Edit 03/30/2017. Systems of structure can have a negative effect as well. Rules can be too strict, too lax, or … More
Don’t make yourself vulnerable to a stranger.
Your limits should always be respected.
It’s efficacy relies on a submissive’s desire for climax.